5 Tips for Couples to Boost Camera Confidence
We absolutely get it!
Having pictures taken of yourselves might not be in your top-10 favorite things to do during your downtime, and, at first it might feel sort of awkward being in front of the camera. But you’re not alone in that! Here’s some tips to feel more comfortable and confident for your wedding/couples session.
ONE: Treat It Like a Date
One of the best things you could do is pretend that you are on a fun date! Think back to your story and the dates that the both of you have been on and pretend that this is just another one of those beautiful days. The way that the both of you naturally enjoy your time together is the best way for your story to be captured. This way, you are spending your time focusing on your partner, rather than the camera, which creates genuine moments. While your photographer will always be there to help guide when necessary, this is a great way to make things feel more candid. Technically, we may just be there third wheeling it.
TWO: Embrace The Moment
Whether you are doing an engagement/anniversary session, getting married, or just wanting some new beautiful photos, think about and embrace the moment that you are having with each other. This could be huge milestone in your relationship, so bask in that fact! This would be a great time to take some deep breaths and think about the journey that it took for the both of you to reach this pivotal moment. Maybe you could also spend some time thinking about the future moments that will be spent too.
THREE: Wear What Feels Like You
Sure, maybe the moment that we’re spending together is to celebrate something special, but, don’t feel like you have to dress in a way that gets in the way of your comfort. Wear what feels authentic to you. When you feel good in your outfit, you can relax and fully enjoy the moment, making the experience even more memorable. Whether it's a fancy dress or your favorite jeans, choose what makes you feel your best!
FOUR: Getting To Know Each Other
Something that we always find important is making it feel less like meeting with a stranger, and more like getting together with a new friend. Take any opportunity to get to know the person behind the lens, and allow that same person to get to know you better. Is it over coffee at Starbucks, Zoom, or a phone call? Either way, getting to know each other before each session allows everyone to feel more comfortable with each other and allows your story to be best represented by someone who has taken the time to understand it.
FIVE: Trust In Your Photographer
Just remember, you are not alone! One of the best things about being a couple who photographs other couples is knowing we aren’t dealing with professional models, just down to earth people who are in love, and we wouldn’t want it any other way. Your photographer will know what you’re feeling and work hard to make sure you feel comfortable.
PS: If you are nervous for your wedding because of factors such as being nervous in front of a camera, we highly recommend doing an engagement session. This would allow you to get to know your photographer better, get a feel for what it would be like on the big day (with little to none of the pressure). Something we always add to our own wedding packages are complimentary engagement sessions! This way we can make sure we get to know each other before the big day and help ensure that camera confidence.
